Blending Families Is Hard—Here’s What Finally Helped Me Create Real Connection
Blending families taught me the hardest truth: I couldn’t control anyone else. Here’s how self-coaching helped me soften, lead, and reconnect to myself.
The Little Things You Do That Matter More Than You Realize
You do so much behind the scenes.
You remember details no one else even notices.
You smooth out rough spots so other people’s lives feel easier.
You anticipate needs before anyone asks.
You offer care instinctively.
You support your people with so much heart and grace that it becomes invisible.
The Art of Truly Seeing and Hearing
David Brooks writes, “Seeing another person deeply is not just an act of perception but an act of creation.” When we listen with intention and reflect with empathy, we help the other person articulate who they are, perhaps in a way they’ve never done before.
This is especially true in coaching. When a client sits across from us, they are often confronted with questions, doubts, or dreams they haven’t yet voiced. Our role is to create a space where they feel safe enough to explore.