The Myth of “Everything’s Fine”
“Fine” isn’t wrong. Sometimes it’s just shorthand for “I can’t go there right now.”
But it’s worth noticing how often it tumbles out and how often it misrepresents what’s true for you.
Thinking vs. Doing: Why Your Busy Brain Isn’t Always Progress
And when your brain is working really hard at thinking, it can trick you into believing you’re moving forward, when in reality, nothing is happening outside your head.
No decision has been made. No action has been taken. There’s nothing you could point to as proof.
Thinking feels busy. Doing creates evidence.