The Thought I Didn’t Know Was Making Me Miserable
At first, I turned on myself. I told myself I must now be the most indecisive person in the world. I must not be that committed after all. I probably don’t want to grow my business the way I say I do.
But none of that rang true.
What the Millionaires Taught Me About Wonder
I was very aware that I was the least experienced entrepreneur in the room.
I wasn’t intimidated—not exactly—but I was in awe.
What struck me most wasn’t their revenue, teams, or automated processes.
It was their delight.
How I built a soulful business when I thought I couldn’t
So when I left my corporate career and fell in love with coaching, I pursued it with the quiet assumption that I'd always need to work inside someone else's business. And honestly, that belief led me somewhere extraordinary. It's the reason I became a candidate for executive leadership at The Life Coach School. I wasn't looking to leave. I was all in on someone else's vision because I genuinely believed I wasn't built to carry my own.
The Quiet Labor Of Invisible Work
I describe this season as being in the basement of a house, digging and building the foundation one cement brick at a time. You wouldn’t necessarily know it because there’s no house standing on top of it yet that I can invite you over to see. But I’m down there, digging and laying the bricks.
The Decision You Think You Made (But Haven’t Really)
This pattern—flip-flopping, second-guessing, and revisiting decisions—has a cost. It drains time, energy, and confidence. And often, the biggest thing holding us back isn’t the decision itself—it’s our fear of commitment.